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Published April 30, 2024

Why you shouldn't use "Hey" when sending a message: It sends people's minds to a dark place

It's possible to ruin someone's day with the simple greeting, "Hey!"

The hatred over the word is called "Hey Hanging" because it typically follows a sentence with the listener waiting in anticipation.

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Such as "Hey, can you work late tonight?'

"Hey, did you hear about about Joe from accounting?"

For some people, the seemingly innocent word causes a wave of emotions, and their minds go to a dark place.

The worst is when the word comes in emails, DM's and texts.

" Imagine calling someone on the phone, going hello! then putting them on hold…

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No one wants to see "Hey" followed by a ……..(typing)

Before the message's gist gets to you, you're already thinking you're about to be fired.

But why? It's because the brain needs to know what will happen for survival.

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Psychologist Bryan Robinson told the Wall Street Journal that the word can trigger a fight-or-flight response where "Our minds go, 'I'm in hot water.'"

The issue even has a website dedicated to it, nohello.net, which encourages ditching the greeting in a message or e-mail.

As it says," Imagine calling someone on the phone, going hello! then putting them on hold… 🤦‍♀️

Feature image from Pexels by Vie Studio

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